LOOK AT THEM., #ta, Breaking News: I'm in love with my new scarf. Based on your answers, OKCupid will decide how you match to individuals, but also the user base as a whole. More about Kit. ), intelligence questions (Which is bigger, the earth or the sun? They’re not afraid of being politically incorrect or offending people, because all they’re doing is running the numbers, so to speak, on information that users provide (their latest blog post is titled, “What if there weren’t so many white people?”). Nth-ing the "just say it on your profile" tactic. I have an OKCupid profile and one of my personality icons used to be kinky, as in above average kinky within my demographic, I guess. How may I joi, I'm very proud of this article that I wrote for #H, My latest contribution to HEMP Magazine is out in, Today's got me like... #sleepycats #ygrittewildcat. So maybe go answer more questions that are less about tolerance and more about personal desires? I think that description is pretty standard for most of the online dating sites. So it may be that your answers are more mainstream than you think, and that is why the icon has disappeared. (“properly, uh, poured” indeed!). It’s fun. I tend to skip questions that I don’t feel are important. How can I get it back? on my profile, I got many, many messages per week, but way fewer messages from people I might be interested in. Thank you. Although, some of those questions I’m still not going to answer…. Would you consider performing anilingus on a partner who asked you to? More/less spiritual. Now back to trying to save the w, I've seen the light. Thanks for commenting! To you, is abortion an option in case of an unwanted or accidental pregnancy? It's probably the weight you put on different questions. Proudly disabled, polyamorous and (gender)queer, Kit lives with his spouse and two cats in Austin, Texas. Posted in OKCupid, Polyamory, and Sex & Relationships. Come on, don’t you want the guys to know what your favorite sexual position is? I ran some n-of-1 experiments with my OKC profile for a few weeks. It can be a bit embarrassing and excessive. Sorry, your blog cannot share posts by email. , Pingback: The quality of men on OkCupid | DelightfulEccentric. Would you consider meeting 2 people online, then arranging a threesome? They are designed to match you with someone who is a good match for you. It’s free, popular, and has a large user pool especially if you’re in a big city. Would you allow your partner to kiss you after performing oral sex on you? More/less old-fashioned. And my all-time favorite question:  Do you know what sperm tastes like? All posts copyright their original authors. Copyright © 2011 Molly Rene and Kit O’Connell. If you enjoyed this post, please support Kit on Patreon! Then there are the tests. Then again, you might be a McGreggor.”, “If your biggest claim to fame is all that head… you might be a Guinness.”, “If you realized that’s the second double entendre about head in this set, but you’re too smooth to mention it… you might be a Guinness.”. The questions can be really fun. More/less compassionate. Ihave had some success on that site as well. Make sure you put some thought into your answers — there may be things about yourself which are undesirable in a match, or vice versa. Maybe kinky people are gradually taking over OKC? Lots of sex questions. Get Kit's political analysis, direct action tips and latest journalism sent to your inbox once or twice a month. This license applies ONLY to this guide, not to other parts of this site unless otherwise noted. More/less kind. So, yes, I signed up for OkCupid, loaded a couple of pictures, filled out the profile, which includes fun pieces like, “I’m really good at…” “The six thing I could never do without…” and “The most private thing I’m willing to admit…(I shower naked).”  You give your details, obviously – height, body type (which is far more varied than match, which I appreciate), education level, etc. Do you enjoy meaningless sex? OkCupid est un site de rencontres américain basé sur des quizz conçus par les utilisateurs, ... En effet, la FAQ apportera toutes les réponses nécessaires à vos questions. My new zine is out! The Which LOLCat Are You Test. I like the quizzes as well. Email: kitoconnell@pobox.com Explanation: I tend to eat primarily vegetarian at home, but it’s not a conscious effort. OKCupid is a unique dating site because OKCupid is all about the questions. But as soon as you mention you’re a Guinness… why do I start hearing Jeff Foxworthy giving the test? ), religious questions (How important is religion/God in your life? For some people, answering match questions can be a fun time waster. Why did the "kinky" icon disappear on my OKcupid profile? It's, Me and James Peterson (} at the Onion Cree, Spotted in an #AustinTX parking lot. How often do you tweet? Don’t forget to tip your barkeep. With thousands of questions submitted and voted on by its users, you can easily spend days of idle time answering them. You can also add an explanation. Frequently Asked for Answers About Questions. There are political questions (Is contraception morally wrong? And sex questions. Truthfully. So if you are religious and want someone religious, then answer those questions truthfully so you don’t find yourself dating an atheist. “You might be…more/less conventionally moral. This week: Answering Match Questions. The If You Were a Beer Test (I’m a Guinness – as if there were any doubt). What is next in the series 1, 4, 10, 19, 31…), lifestyle related questions (Are you happy with your life? Then they have these questions. I’ve answered 100. ), drug-related questions (Would you date someone if you knew they were a current drug user? ), drinking-related questions (Do you ever feel the need to get really drunk? There are probably a couple dozen questions directly relating to open relationships, and many more which address important topics about sex and dating. I also tend to over-analyze questions and skip them when I feel the answers don’t accurately reflect how I feel. Magazine, the Texas Observer and Truthout. Mandatory is a bit of a misnomer — OKCupid can tell these questions are very important to you, but it will still try to match you up with people who disagree about these questions. Hobley says by asking and answering these kinds of questions on a dating app like OkCupid, it helps to build an emotional connection and commonality between daters.